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Intrusive Thoughts Experienced by New Parents: What They Are & Tips on How to Cope
To begin with, I think intrusive thoughts are something ALL parents should be made aware of, particularly because of how common and...
Amy Smith
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CBT: Strengths and Pitfalls
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is considered the gold standard when it comes to therapy for a range of difficulties, such as...
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Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) in a Nutshell
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is a model commonly used in therapy for a range of difficulties, including, depression, anxiety, OCD,...
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Valentine's Day for Singletons: Tips on How to Cope
Valentine’s Day is associated with the day of love and the opportunity to express this more explicitly with your romantic partner. Whilst...
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Juggling WFH and Childcare
TEN ways to Managing the Juggle of Working from Home and Childcare Since the emergence of COVID-19 and the subsequent lockdowns, working...
Amy Smith
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7 Tips to Improve your Sleep
1. Establish a regular routine by: · Going to bed at a similar time and waking at a similar time each day · Having a...
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Online Counselling
What is Online Counselling and How Does Online Counselling Work? Online counselling involves having therapy, with each session usually...
Amy Smith
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How CBT for Anxiety can Backfire
CBT for Anxiety Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is a therapy approach which is commonly used to support individuals with anxiety. CBT...
Amy Smith
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Why Holidays are so Good for us?!
It is easy for us to be consumed by everyday demands from our work and other duties. On the one hand this can be helpful for us; humans...
Amy Smith
Jan 23, 20233 min read


Quitting Your Job and Considering Your Next Career Move
Leaving a job which has been leaving you unfilled when another job is not yet lined up can lead to a mixture of emotions. It may lead to...
Amy Smith
Jan 23, 20232 min read


WFH: How to Cope with its Challenges
Working from home (WFH) has brought several benefits for many individuals, such as achieving a better work-life balance and having more...
Amy Smith
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How CBT Works for Anxiety
What are the benefits of CBT Therapy for Anxiety? Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is a therapy approach that is commonly used by...
Amy Smith
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Perfectionist Anxiety: How can CBT Help?
What is Perfectionism and How Can it Lead to Anxiety? Perfectionists are individuals who impose high standards on themselves across...
Amy Smith
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The Potential Challenges of Moving in with your Partner and How to Navigate
Moving in with your partner for the first time can be an exciting opportunity. It offers the chance to spend more time together, build a...
Amy Smith
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How to Support Someone with an Eating Disorder
· Listen and be patient. Take the time to listen to the person with an eating disorder. Avoid criticising them, making...
Amy Smith
Jan 23, 20232 min read


Binge Eating Disorder; What is it and How to Heal?
What is Binge Eating Disorder (BED)? Binge Eating Disorder (BED) is an eating disorder that may not be as widely recognised as Anorexia...
Amy Smith
Jan 23, 20233 min read


How to Increase Body Positivity
Do you hold a negative body image? Here are some ways to find out: Are you spending lots of time attending to your weight and shape? For...
Amy Smith
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Cleaning as an Anxiety Coping Tool: Explained
In life we all experience a degree of anxiety, to varying degrees. Our instinct as humans is to find ways to be rid of this unpleasant...
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How to Find the Right Hobby for You
In life we can often get consumed by work and no, or far too little play! Our brains and bodies are not made for the fast-paced society...
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St Albans Rooms
21 Victoria Street
St Albans
AL1 3JJ
England
And
Hertford Well-Being
5A Great Northern Works
Hartham Lane
Hertford
SG14 1QW
England
07825910485
FAQs
I provide therapy on a self funded basis and can also see individuals with insurance cover. The rate for self funded sessions is £110 per 50 minutes session. For more information, please see the following page: Fees(https://www.hertstherapypractice.com/fees)
Knowing when to seek therapy is an important step in prioritising your mental health. While everyone’s journey is unique, certain signs and experiences suggest that professional support may be beneficial. Therapy can help if you are:
1. Feeling Overwhelmed by Stress or Emotions
If you’re constantly anxious, sad, or irritable, and these emotions feel unmanageable, mental health support can provide tools to regain control and balance in your life.
2. Experiencing Persistent Negative Thoughts
Repetitive worries, self-doubt, or feelings of hopelessness may signal deeper issues that a therapist can help address.
3. Struggling with Relationships
Conflicts, communication challenges, or feelings of disconnection in personal or professional relationships may benefit from exploring patterns and building healthier interactions.
4. Facing Major Life Transitions
Significant changes, like a breakup, job loss, or becoming a parent, can be emotionally taxing. Therapy offers a safe space to process these adjustments.
5. Dealing with Physical Symptoms of Stress
If headaches, fatigue, or sleep problems persist without a clear medical cause, they might be linked to emotional distress, which therapy can help alleviate.
6. Feeling Stuck or Unfulfilled
A sense of emptiness, lack of purpose, or difficulty achieving goals can often stem from unresolved personal challenges. Therapy can guide you toward clarity and growth.
7. Turning to Unhealthy Coping Mechanisms
Over-relying on alcohol, food, or avoidance behaviors to cope with stress or emotions could indicate the need for healthier strategies.
What Therapy Can Offer You
Therapy provides a non-judgmental space to explore your thoughts and feelings, identify patterns, and develop skills to cope with life’s challenges. Whether you’re dealing with a specific issue or simply seeking personal growth, therapy can help you move forward with confidence.
The first therapy session is a welcoming space designed to help you feel comfortable and supported as you take this important step toward improving your mental health. Here’s what you can expect:
1. Exploring Your Concerns
I will ask about what has brought you to therapy. Whether it’s anxiety, depression, stress, relationship issues, or something else, this is your chance to share your thoughts and feelings in a safe environment.
2. Learning About Your Background
To better understand your situation, I will ask about your personal history, lifestyle, work, and relationships. This helps create a fuller picture of who you are and what you’re experiencing.
3. Goals
We will explore your goals for therapy and we will discuss how therapy will be tailored to your needs.
4. Building a Connection
The first session is a chance to see how you feel about my style and approach. I am warm and down to earth which can help create a strong therapeutic relationship, which is essential for successful outcomes.
There’s no need to prepare extensively—just come as you are. It’s normal to feel a little nervous, but I am there to support you every step of the way.
I provide evidence-based psychological therapies tailored to your individual needs, including:
1. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
CBT is a structured, goal-oriented approach that focuses on identifying and changing negative thought patterns and behaviors. It’s highly effective for anxiety, depression, and stress-related concerns.
2. Schema Therapy
Schema Therapy helps you explore and heal deep-rooted patterns developed in childhood that may affect your relationships and emotional well-being. It’s ideal for addressing long-standing challenges such as low self-esteem, emotional dysregulation, and unhealthy relationship dynamics.
3. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
ACT helps you develop psychological flexibility by accepting difficult emotions, clarifying your values, and committing to meaningful action. It’s particularly helpful for managing anxiety, chronic stress, and life transitions.
Each therapy type is designed to address different challenges, and we’ll work together to determine the approach that best suits you. Whether you’re seeking help for anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or personal growth, the tailored therapy I offer can provide the tools you need to thrive.
The duration of therapy depends on your individual needs, goals, and the type of mental health difficulties you’re facing. Here’s a general guide to help you understand what to expect:
1. Short-Term Therapy
• Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Typically lasts between 6 to 20 sessions for issues like anxiety, depression, or stress. It’s goal-oriented and focused on providing practical tools for change.
• Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT): May range from 8 to 16 sessions, depending on the complexity of your goals and challenges.
2. Medium to Long-Term Therapy
• Schema Therapy: Often requires a longer commitment, especially for deep-rooted patterns or longstanding difficulties like low self-esteem, emotional dysregulation, or chronic relationship issues. Therapy can last 6 months to 2 years, depending on individual progress.
3. Tailored Approach
Therapy duration is always personalised. Some people feel significant improvement within a few months, while others benefit from ongoing sessions to work through complex challenges or maintain mental health over time.
I will regularly review your progress and goals with you, ensuring that therapy is aligned with your needs. Whether you’re seeking help for anxiety, depression or personal growth, therapy is designed to provide support at a pace that feels right for you.
I am a fully qualified Counselling Psychologist where I am trained to a Doctoral level. I am registered with the recognised body of the HCPC. I adhere to strict ethical standards, prioritise ongoing professional development, and maintain valid insurance coverage. I ensure I deliver ethical, effective, and personalised mental health care tailored to your needs.
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